Boundaries

People Pleasing & Narcissists: Why We Attract Them, How to Break Free & 3 Key Tools

Uncover the psychology of people pleasing and break free from narcissistic cycles. Learn why we do it, why we must stop, and get actionable steps for change. Reclaim your life now!

Gaslighting 101: The Hidden Impact on Self-Esteem

Ever felt like going crazy, being the only one remembering things differently? It might be gaslighting - a subtle psychological abuse making you doubt your sanity. In this blog, I talk about what gaslighting is, how it works, and how it can impact your self-esteem. I also share some tips on how to protect yourself from gaslighting and how to recover your self-esteem if you have been on the receiving end of this form of abuse.

How to Handle Manipulative People

If you're wondering how to deal with manipulative people, it's probably because you have a master manipulator in your life. Toxic people like narcissists, borderlines, addicts, and bullies are very good at triggering your empathy, pulling your strings, and it's difficult to know how to navigate. Keep toxic relationships at a distance, help protect you as you heal, and regain peace. If you're a people pleaser, an empath, or simply an agreeable nice person, you might be attracting manipulative people. Learn why people manipulate, why you attract manipulative people, and exactly how to deal with a manipulative person. You'll learn how healthy boundaries help you avoid toxic people, and what to expect when you try to stop being manipulated. Learn about crab pot theory, also known as crab bucket mentality, and how this relates to healing from dysfunction, codependency, and abuse.

Codependency & Emotional Vampires: The Power of Boundaries

Discover the power of setting healthy boundaries in this eye-opening blog! Learn how to protect your self-esteem from the two biggest threats: codependency and emotional vampires. We'll dive into practical tips and strategies to help you regain control of your life and relationships. Don't let others drain your energy and happiness – it's time to embrace your true value!

Embracing Boundaries: How Saying "No" Can Empower You

Do you often find yourself struggling with guilt and feeling selfish whenever you try to establish boundaries? Are you someone who has a hard time saying no, leaving you overworked, underappreciated, and overwhelmed? If this resonates with you, it's time to learn how to take back your life. Learn the practical steps to help you set boundaries effectively and develop a strong sense of self-worth.

Surviving the Vulnerability Hangover: Finding Your Self-Worth

Have you ever experienced a vulnerability hangover? That feeling of exposure and embarrassment after sharing something personal about yourself? We've all been there. Learn the four key steps to handling vulnerability hangovers and bouncing back stronger. By understanding the nature of vulnerability, assessing what was shared, examining your intentions, and learning to let go, you can build self-worth and foster meaningful connections.

Break Free from People Pleasing: Embrace Your True Worth

Are you tired of constantly seeking approval and putting other people's needs before your own? People pleasing may seem like a harmless way to keep the peace, but it can lead to resentment, depression, and a feeling of emptiness. Learn the difference between people pleasing and genuine kindness, the negative impact of people pleasing on your self-worth, and four steps to break free from this destructive behavior.

How to Set Boundaries and Boost Self-Worth in a Relationship

Does self-worth change the quality of your relationships? Absolutely! Self-worth is critical when it comes to a having a healthy and loving relationship. In this episode, you'll learn how over-giving and under-receiving depletes self-worth. You'll learn why tit-for-tat thinking kills intimacy (and self-esteem). You'll get three easy steps to strengthen self-worth, your relationship, and to get yourself back on track.

How to Find Peace: Self-Worth During Holidays

Embracing worthiness during family gatherings and holidays can be challenging when the negative voice in our heads amplifies feelings of unworthiness. By recognizing this voice as a faulty car alarm and shifting our focus, we can detach from its influence. Redirecting our thoughts to seek the truth and adopting a positive narrative allows us to maintain a positive mindset. Embracing worthiness is an ongoing journey that requires practice and patience, but it empowers us to navigate these situations with confidence and self-worth.

The Surprising Way Your Self-Worth Affects Your PARENTING

Does self-worth affect your parenting? The answer is yes. Here I share about how boundaries affect parenting, self-worth, and trust. I give you a "before-and-after" example of what my parenting looked like when my self-esteem was in the gutter and what parenting looked like "after" I had a strong sense of self worth. Learn why self-worth work is critical for parents and easy steps to help you start your own worthy work.