Most people don’t realize they’re arguing with a narcissist until they’re already stuck—trapped in endless conversations that go nowhere. Today, I’ll break down the two levels of this dynamic: the low-level game that pulls you into endless arguments and frustration, and the high-level power move that ends the game for good.
3 Ways Narcissists Test Their Next Target
Narcissists use three specific tests to decide if you’re someone they can control. The key isn’t just spotting these tests—it’s knowing how to fail them on purpose, so narcissists get the clear message that you’re not a good target. Today, I’ll break down the three subtle tests narcissists use to find their targets, share real-life examples of how these tests play out, and one simple tool you can use to fail their target test—in any situation.
5 Faces of the Female Covert Narcissist
The female covert narcissist presents five distinct faces to the world—outer manifestations of hidden personality traits. Learn to decode each of these faces.
5 Rules That Make You Un-Manipulatable
10 Things I Had Totally Wrong About Narcissists
Today, I’ll share the 10 biggest mistakes I made about narcissists—and what you can look for to avoid the same mistakes.
Narcissists Are Evolving: 5 New Red Flags
Narcissists in 2025 aren’t what they used to be. Today, I’ll share the 5 new red flags to watch for, explain why narcissists are changing and show you how to protect yourself from their manipulation.
What Narcissists Hope When You Leave Them
Discover what a narcissist hopes for after you've gone no-contact, what they actually think about your decision, and most importantly, the psychology behind why they react the way they do.
5 Things Narcissists Do That'll Never Make Sense (And How to Protect Yourself)
Whether you’re dating, married to, or trying to figure out a past relationship–narcissists can leave you questioning everything if you don’t know how to categorize their behavior. Today, I’ll share five things narcissists do that never make sense, unpack the motives behind these behaviors, and show you how to avoid getting hooked.
5 Clues to Spot a Narcissistic Mother in Conversation
Whether it’s your own mother, stepmom, mother-in-law, or even your ex-wife—today, I’ll give you five clues to help you identify a narcissistic mother in conversation, share examples from my own experience to show how these patterns work, and provide practical strategies to help you regain control in these interactions.
The Biggest Mistake You Can Make With Narcissists
Learn the biggest mistakes people make with narcissists, why certain types of boundaries backfire, and a surprising way to rethink boundaries that will change how you approach them forever—giving you a powerful tactic to stop a narcissist without saying a word.